Two days ago, I told my ex-bf that I'm in a poly relationship. He didn't realize that he opened a new way of thinking. I've been hanging around Poly websites, meeting new people, and generally enjoying poly --- everything.
I didn't share because I've come into Poly backwards. Originally, I wanted to understand relationships... because I need to learn.
The autopsy on my last relationship, I mapped what I was lacking... Poly teaches a lot of the communication skills that I am missing.