My writings... and how I've found a new life-- not in the ashes of the old life-- but in eyes and hearts of new friends, new lovers and new places.

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Poly life.

I'm still new to this... and I'm surprised at how well I've adapted to the poly life.

Two days ago, I told my ex-bf that I'm in a poly relationship. He didn't realize that he opened a new way of thinking. I've been hanging around Poly websites, meeting new people, and generally enjoying poly --- everything.

I didn't share because I've come into Poly backwards. Originally, I wanted to understand relationships... because I need to learn.

The autopsy on my last relationship, I mapped what I was lacking... Poly teaches a lot of the communication skills that I am missing.